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So it turns out that you want to know more about this mindfulness stuff. For those who haven’t been following my monthly series, mindfulness is all about taking a break to spend some time in the present moment. That can look like a lot of different things, including deep breathing, meditation, or just paying closer attention to yourself and your surroundings.
Worry not; it’s perfectly OK to be a little confused and even skeptical about making mindfulness a thing in your life. This month, I’m taking on the most commonly asked student questions, and I’m not afraid to dig into the good, the not-so-good and…the itchy? Read on to find out about dealing with distraction, bodily sensations, evidence-based benefits, and more.
“How can a busy student who’s always on the go find time to fit in meditation?”
—Puneet S., third-year undergraduate, University of British Columbia
The struggle is real. When your day is bananas (as mine often is), you typically don’t have the luxury of sitting down to meditate. Even if you do, your mind might be too revved up for you to transition into a formal practice. Luckily, there are some bite-sized or lightweight mindfulness methods that do fit into a busy day. They can help inject some calm and clarity, especially if you use them a few times over the course of your day. It’s like planting little flags of mindfulness so that there’s never too much time that passes without having a peaceful, grounding moment. Here are some of those lightweight strategies:
Try the Mindful Pause, which works as a “spot remedy” for moments of anxiety by helping you turn toward and accept unpleasant feelings rather than fighting them. It’s a 30-second practice with four steps:
- Take a long, slow breath in and out.
- Bring attention to the sensations in your body for a few moments, without evaluating those sensations as good or bad.
- Ground your attention for a few moments in the sensations of breath at the nostrils.
- Go on to whatever’s next in your day, but in an unhurried way.
Infuse more mindfulness into your day
Here’s a key skill: Learn to recognize thoughts as the mental stories they are instead of getting carried off by distracting thoughts or automatically believing negative thoughts.
Here’s a lightweight way to practise this skill: Whenever you notice you’ve gotten lost in thought, apply the mental label “thinking.” Then bring your attention to the sensations of the breath in your nostrils, your feet on the floor, or some other sensory experience. Before too long, you’ll probably notice you’ve gotten lost again. Just repeat the process.
Check out my other “Mind Your Mind” posts for more mindfulness strategies that fit into a busy day.
“What will meditation help me achieve in the long run?”
—Peter W.*, fourth-year undergraduate, University of New Brunswick
Like most serious meditators, I’m happy to talk people’s ears off about the benefits I’ve gotten from my practice. But I’m biased, so take it from my mom instead. She says I’ve become less impulsive, more considerate of other people, and way less stressed. In fact, she was once very skeptical about mindfulness, but she’s seen enough positive changes in me that she recently started meditating herself.
If the heartfelt testimonials of the Krop family don’t move the needle for you, it’s worth noting the growing body of scientific research confirming that meditation and mindfulness practice can reduce stress, pain, anxiety, and depression; improve focus; and make us happier, healthier, and even more creative.
For example, one meta-analysis, published in JAMA Internal Medicine in 2014, reviewed 47 studies of meditation programs and found that mindfulness routines helped with anxiety, depression, and pain. Another study, published in Psychosomatic Medicine in 2013, found that a mindfulness-based program significantly lowered blood pressure for individuals with prehypertension, or higher-than-normal blood pressure.
In short, the science is very encouraging. Really, though, you should just listen to my mom.
“What advice do you have for overthinkers who are having trouble relaxing and clearing their minds?”
—Rebecca N., second-year undergraduate, California State University, Channel Islands
Here’s the thing about clearing your mind: It’s impossible. Straight up, you cannot do it. In old Tibet, some meditation masters instructed their new students to sit for hours without having any thoughts, just so the students would try and try until eventually they recognized the futility of it.
Unfortunately, it’s a common misconception that meditation is all about clearing the mind. Then, when people try and inevitably fail, they decide they must be “bad meditators.”
Luckily, clearing your mind isn’t just impossible; it’s also unnecessary. When you meditate, there will be a ton of things going on: sounds in the background, sensations in your body, and thoughts moving through the mind. All of that is perfect. You don’t need to block, “clear,” or interfere with any of that. You don’t need to create some sort of artificial inner silence. Just let all those sounds, sensations, and thoughts unfold in the background and rest your attention on your breath (or whatever meditation object you’re using) in the midst of all that activity.
I’m what you might call an overthinker myself. As a new meditator, when I sat down to practise, I’d get frustrated because my mind was so crammed with thoughts. My error was in believing that all those thoughts were a problem. Luckily, a more advanced meditator kindly pointed out my misunderstanding. Once I stopped resenting the presence of thoughts and just let them come and go on their own, my meditation clicked.
“Is there an ideal amount of time one should spend meditating (or practising mindfulness) before feeling benefits?”
—Jenna O., second-year graduate student, University of New Brunswick
It’s hard to say—progress varies from person to person and situation to situation. I wish I had a more specific answer, but I can tell you some of the factors that affect how quickly the benefits arise and increase:
How consistently you meditate. This is, in my experience, the biggest factor. It’s ideal to meditate every day and try to keep your missed days to a minimum.
How long you meditate each day. In my opinion, consistency is way more important than length of session. I also don’t want meditation to become an unpleasant competition with yourself where you strain to do ever-longer sessions. If you meditate two minutes a day, that’s fantastic. You can always lengthen your sessions down the line. That said, I can’t deny that you’ll progress faster if you meditate for longer, all else being equal.
How mindful you are in your daily life. Are you meditating in the morning, then spending the rest of the day lost in distraction? If so, that’s a bit like hitting the treadmill in the morning, then eating junk food for every meal. Instead, try to notice when you’ve become distracted during the day and bring the mind back to the present moment. Take breaks now and then from your digital devices. When you find yourself with idle time on public transit or waiting in line, watch the sensations of your breath for a minute or quietly take in your surroundings instead of pulling out your phone. Weave your mindfulness practice into the fabric of your life.
“I’ve tried short sessions of meditation, but I just can’t get through them. How can I try to meditate if I can’t sit still or empty my mind?”
—Jared S.*, first-year student, NorQuest College, Alberta
I love this question because it lets me deliver some good news: Moving during meditation is perfectly okay. If you have an itch, scratch it! If you have to fidget, fidget! It won’t stop you from experiencing the benefits of meditation.
Meditation involves sitting fairly still, but it’s not the Mannequin Challenge, and it doesn’t need to feel like torture. Here’s what I suggest: If you feel a strong urge to move, don’t grit your teeth and battle it. Go ahead and move, but do it slowly and see if you can pay mindful attention to the sensations of movement. That way, the movement becomes a part of the meditation rather than an interruption. Then settle back into physical stillness and continue with your practice.
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